Should I E-mail My Ex G/F?

Hi. Last night I found the E-mail Address %26amp; Myspace profile page for my ex-girlfriend. We haven't had any contact in about 6-7 years. We're both living several States apart. Although, she's still in our old hometown. I have very little family or friends left there. The town isn't small.





What I'm debating is whether or not to contact her. I'm not even certain she checks her E-mail much or at all. Her last Myspace login in was several months ago. Unless she's been logging on invisibly. The E-mail I found for her also doesn't come up when you do a Myspace search.





My heart tells me I should contact her for old times sake and because I do care. My mind tells me: "what's the point?" "what am I looking to accomplish in E-mailing her?"





The relationship was overall real good. We had many amazing memories. On her Myspace she has pictures of herself and a boyfriend. Our relation didn't end on the best of terms. Should I E-mail her?
Should I E-mail My Ex G/F?
Since she is committed i am going with NO. You have to remember with one simple email saying hi, could change or ruin everything with her new relationship with the other guy. I mean there would be no harm EXCEPT she has a man, And with that said, i would not get involved.





My husband's ex sent him a email after 6-7 years and i was devastated. She was hashing all their old memories out, spilling how much she missed him, and all that jazz....KNOWING he was married. Just put yourself in that guys shoes..would you want the same thing to happen to you? I am sure not....





Good luck with your decision. The past is the past. I would leave it at that. Unless she comes up single and i wouldn't go for it.
Reply:Do what your heart is telling you, you know what to do, be persistent about it and don't give up if that's what you really want, the problem with realationships now is that people give up to easy, we get something stuck in our head and we drop everything and don't look back and people wonder why, I say , myself if you still care and it seems like you do, go for it and don't stop till you find her
Reply:Think about the new guy in her life, would you appreciate it if you girlfriend's ex contacted her after years of not seeing each other? No you wouldn't so why rock the boat, you split up for a reason and it was good enough at the time, so whats changed? Just leave it be or she might become an obsession.
Reply:Go for it! You split up such a long time ago. The chances are if shes moved on then she wont even remember the bad things about you. Lifes to short to wonder! You never know you might make a really good friend out of it. (might be an idea to say that you just happened to see her on there and that you are looking just to be friends and see how she is) Good luck
Reply:Only you can decide what to do.
Reply:totally you should email her! itll give u the "whats new" about each of you! if i were you id miss her and even though your relationship ended on bad terms, shell have forgiven you already surely!
Reply:well thanks for asking this question


i really wanna contact my exboyf but our relationship didnt end on the best terms as well


im scared he is gonna say something rude to me ...i dunno


its weird isnt it???


but i would contact your exg
Reply:as her friend, yeah. screw your mind and just say hi.